Current:Home > Contact5 strategies to help you cope with a nagging feeling of dread -TrueNorth Finance Path
5 strategies to help you cope with a nagging feeling of dread
View
Date:2025-04-13 01:45:54
The list of things we dread is almost endless: the Sunday scaries, climate change, deadlines, the holidays, simple errands, you name it.
So how can we feel better when we're anticipating the worst? I'm Saleem Reshamwala, host of More Than a Feeling, a podcast on emotions from the meditation and mindfulness platform Ten Percent Happier, and we partnered with Life Kit to share five practices for managing that nagging feeling of impending doom.
We've been exploring this theme in a mini-series in Season 2 of our podcast. And we've learned that dread isn't all that bad. It turns out there are some benefits in starting an open conversation about the things that worry us. "The purpose of dread is to help prepare you," says psychologist Ali Mattu. "It's to help you think about what might happen. It's to help you take actions that you can right now."
We talked to researchers, art therapists and death doulas to find out how to dread ... better.
Rewrite your dread
We often struggle to talk about dread because it can feel so heavy. Poet and clinical psychologist Hala Alyan has a suggestion: Write down the things you're concerned about. She shares a journal prompt to help you emotionally distance from your dread.
Draw your dread
What happens when we express our dread without words? Art therapist Naomi Cohen-Thompson and meditation teacher and writer Jeff Warren explain why reframing our attitudes toward dread nonverbally can help us accept what scares us.
Find the joy in dreading ... death
Fear of death may be the ultimate type of dread we face, but clinical psychologist Rachel Menzies and death doula Alua Arthur say that facing death can be a joyful exercise. They make a compelling case for why remembering we will die – instead of trying to forget – can help us accept the inevitable.
Schedule your dread
This is how my dread works: I dread something. I try to avoid thinking about it. I fail. Before I know it, I've spent an entire day stuck in an endless loop of worry. Mattu shares some tips around this conundrum, including the benefits of carving out "worry time" to keep dread from becoming too overwhelming.
Notice your surroundings
After speaking with More Than a Feeling listeners, it became clear that one of the biggest issues they're worried about right now is the state of our planet. I spoke with therapist Patty Adams, who helped me understand how connecting to the environment can help us build emotional resilience -- so that even if we feel paralyzed by "eco-dread," as it's called, we don't stay there for too long.
You can find our miniseries The Dread Project in the More Than a Feeling podcast feed, wherever you listen.
The audio portion of this episode was produced by Jen Poyant. The digital story was edited by Malaka Gharib. We'd love to hear from you. Leave us a voicemail at 202-216-9823, or email us at LifeKit@npr.org.
Listen to Life Kit on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or sign up for our newsletter.
veryGood! (61)
Related
- Who's hosting 'Saturday Night Live' tonight? Musical guest, how to watch Dec. 14 episode
- Bank of America customers report account outages, some seeing balances of $0
- 'Professional bottle poppers': Royals keep up wild ride from 106 losses to the ALDS
- Hailey Bieber's Fall Essentials Include Precious Nod to Baby Jack
- 'No Good Deed': Who's the killer in the Netflix comedy? And will there be a Season 2?
- Why The Bear’s Joel McHale Really, Really Likes Knives
- Must-Shop Early Prime Day 2024 Beauty Deals: Snag Urban Decay, Solawave, Elemis & More Starting at $7.99
- Authorities investigating Impact Plastics in Tennessee after workers died in flooding
- Off the Grid: Sally breaks down USA TODAY's daily crossword puzzle, Hi Hi!
- Helene death toll hits 200 one week after landfall; 1M without power: Live updates
Ranking
- Newly elected West Virginia lawmaker arrested and accused of making terroristic threats
- How Black leaders in New York are grappling with Eric Adams and representation
- Prosecutors drop case against third man in Chicago police officer’s death
- A simple, forehead-slapping mistake on your IRA could be costing you thousands
- Selena Gomez's "Weird Uncles" Steve Martin and Martin Short React to Her Engagement
- What is the Google Doodle today? Popcorn kernels run around in Wednesday's Doodle
- Helene will likely cause thousands of deaths over decades, study suggests
- Bank of America customers report account outages, some seeing balances of $0
Recommendation
The Best Stocking Stuffers Under $25
‘Pure Greed’: A Legal System That Gives Corporations Special Rights Has Come for Honduras
Erin Foster says 'we need positive Jewish stories' after 'Nobody Wants This' criticism
Man who was mad about Chinese spy balloon is convicted of threatening former Speaker McCarthy
Current, future North Carolina governor’s challenge of power
Florida communities hit three times by hurricanes grapple with how and whether to rebuild
Chad Ochocinco, Steelers legend James Harrison to fight in MMA bout before Super Bowl
Owners of certain Chevrolet, GMC trucks can claim money in $35 million settlement